Forever
A few weekends ago, in an effort to escape the dramas of life (at least temporarily), I decided to go on a meditation retreat at the Nan Hua Buddhist temple in Bronkhorstspruit. Nan Hua, meaning southern flower or splendour, is now allegedly the largest Buddhist temple in the Southern Hemisphere. The golden mielie fields of Bronkhosrspruit might be an unexpected setting for a Buddhist temple, but the unconventional location emphasizes its splendour.
The Temple has a meditation centre and offers Zen retreats to the public. I am not necessarily Buddhist nor well trained in meditation, but I thought a weekend away from everything familiar at a Taiwanese facility in the middle of nowhere in Africa might just be what I needed. While staying there the food provided was completely vegetarian (which took some getting used to), the chalets had no TVs, the temple had a certain dress code (like no exposure of knees or shoulders) and one had to get up at incredibly early hours of the morning to meditate. Meditation also occurred about five times each day. For someone with very little meditation experience this was quite out of my comfort zone, but worth it none the less.
That Sunday we met one of the monk master teachers who guided us through a tea meditation and allowed for some questions and answers afterwards. He spoke Mandarin which was translated into English by a Tanzanian ex-monk. To me this was the highlight of the excursion as the master’s teaching style was through Socratic Method in which he asks contemplative questions. He also enjoyed setting up some mind traps which challenged the audience to think a little deeper before answering. In one example he picked up his mug (not a cup) of tea and asked “What do you see?” to which many replied “A mug.” He then asked “Is that all that you see? What about this rock and these trees? What about the sky and the clouds? Why is this mug the only thing you see? I’ll, ask again. What do you see?” This made the audience think a bit deeper about the question. I hazarded equivocally “The light that enters my eyes”, which fortunately turned out to be the answer he was looking for. He continued to compare visual sight to how we form perceptions of our own lives, sometimes forgetting that there is usually a bigger picture and that we are ultimately in control of what we focus on. An example would be craving for the love and attention from a significant other, but turning a blind eye to kindness received from family and friends and making a personal value based judgment based on this perception.
Indulging ambiguity might seem to be counter-intuitive, but being merely aware of reality’s ambiguous nature could make it easier to be objective about how to use judgements and conclusions. Indeed, one of my favourite quotes comes from a book called Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by R. M. Pirsig in which the author states “The number of rational hypotheses that can explain any given phenomenon is infinite.”
This method of teaching inspires people to find and take responsibility for their own truth. Introspective contemplation of the human consciousness and strict disciplining of one’s own mind have taken a back seat in modern society as we become more attention deficit thanks to intrusive technologies like television, cellphones and the internet. Yet Buddhists have been practicing to achieve these goals for thousands of years.
Although we are beginning to understand how the brain works thanks to progress made in psychology and neurology (and even have ideas on improving it), this effort completely overshadows any effort into developing better skills for actually driving it . This is like souping up cars for drunk drivers.
But the most fascinating thing the monk made me think of is the concept of “Forever.” Buddhists, at least those at Nan Hua, speak of living forever. I didn’t give this much attention as I saw it as metaphysical speculation, until he asked us if we knew what forever was. To me, the concept of forever is almost impossible to imagine. How does one measure the duration of forever? How do we conceive a measurement that cannot be quantified? Forever is merely a keyword representing an inconceivable concept. So of course I couldn’t say that I KNEW what forever was.
According to the monk, to understand forever, one has to realize the nature of yesterday, tomorrow and consequently our perception of time. Time is relative as it progresses at completely different speeds during R.E.M. sleep when compared to alert waking states. It also appears to pass more quickly as one gets older. Using an example from Wikipedia’s article on Time, a year for a five-year-old child is 20% of his entire life so far, however for a 50 year old adult a year is only 2% of his entire life so far; so with increasing age, each segment of time is a decreasing percentage of the person’s total experience. Yesterday and tomorrow, the future and the past are merely projections made or thoughts generated based on what we consider to be our memory. In a more extreme example, the Aymara people, indigenous to South America, have a reverse concept of time embedded within their language where to them the past is straight ahead!
All of this is possible because we are ultimately in control of our perception of time, yet in truth neither the past nor the future truly exists AS time. Both can merely exist as projections of different perspectives. The only time that truly exists, is the time that is really happening- right now. This moment. And if one can completely clear ones mind of thoughts of the past and the future, just for a moment, then that moment is forever. This could be one of the reasons Buddhist seek to live in the “now,” because when they do… they become immortal.
This line of reasoning attempts to qualify “Forever” and time as opposed to quantifying it and I find the value of cherishing the moment priceless.
Speaking of the quality of time (you have made it this far), I would like to wish you a HAPPY and PROSPEROUS 2007!
See also:
My Flickr photoset of the Nun Hua temple
Nun Hua Buddhist Temple Official website
Backs to the Future: Aymara Language and Gesture Point to Mirror-Image View of Time
Contemplative Science: Where Buddhism and Neuroscience Converge
Wikipedia on Time











January 3rd, 2007 at 2:30 pm
Happy…Happy
Another book that is good to take a look at is “The Monk who sold his Ferrari”
and just try and stare at a flower for 60 seconds with only thinking about the flower, don’t let any other thought enter your mind! Not so easy man.
We had Christian friends in PTA that used to go there often whilst the one had cancer, she had a very speedy and successful recovery!!
January 3rd, 2007 at 3:11 pm
I think I have a copy in my study somewhere, but I haven’t taken a look at it yet. I will do so as soon as I can take some time, thanks for the suggestion.
Concentration training like staring at an object, listening to external sounds or breath counting might seem difficult in the beginning, but with regular practice one is bound to improve. While at Nan Hua, you are encouraged to try and meditate while doing even the simplest of tasks like eating and walking. None of these things are easy at first, at least not for me, but after a while you feel a heightened awareness that makes it a bit easier. I am very much a novice when it comes to meditation, but hopefully that will change with practice.
While I am sure many other factors were involved as well, there is a lot to be said for the power of a focussed and willful mind. Even for people not as lucky as your friend I am sure there is a lot of value in spending the time to constructively contemplate and give meaning to one’s existence. But I am glad to hear that your friend managed to beat it.
February 20th, 2007 at 11:02 pm
[…] I checked out some festivities at Nan Hua on Sunday and if you are a South African unaware of the Chinese and Taiwanese communities in South Africa, it is a surreal experience to go out and enjoy their celebrations locally. The whole current De la Rey controversy [music video] made me investigate my roots and I was surprised to learn that the British introduced Chinese labour (read: slavery) into the country after the Second Boer War (known to foreigners as the South African war). […]
October 9th, 2007 at 4:52 am
Hi
It was so nice to see Nan Hua again. I spend five years there, one year at the African Buddhist Seminary and another four years at the temple. I have so many memories. When were you last there?
Rob, (Ben Jue)
October 23rd, 2007 at 2:31 pm
Hi Ben Jue,
I am sorry for my late reply, but I was in China for a bit. To be honest, I have had many flights of imagination on staying at the Seminary and Temple for a year or more. Learning Mandarin and the art of contemplation should be an awesome journey. The last time I was there was in November 2006. It was really an awesome experience, one that I will probably repeat soon. You say that it is a past experience; where has life taken you now?
March 24th, 2008 at 5:19 pm
Great post. I’m especially intrigued by the connections between Buddhism and science. I read an article in the Times a year or two back reporting on a study that demonstrated that Buddhist mediation practice over time actually led to changes in the physical structure of the brain that were correlated with an improved ability to manage stress. Cool stuff!